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Tuesday, March 19, 2013

The Boy's First St. Patrick's Day!

Good morning my little leprechaun!


Pit scooted over and then the four of us went to meet Pinner and her family.
Pit in front of Joe's Apartment
Who is that cutie? 
Aww!! 

Pinner with the boy. 

Zoe's first time holding the boy. She is a natural! 


Marcus... not so much! hahaha! 
Jay looks great in this shot! 
Pit taking photos for people... looks like he is still dancing! 
View from inside Taft's - a hidden little restaurant that wasn't busy... I don't know why... perfect location - right in the action. 
Chow time! 
Happy Family! 
Let's keep on strolling! 

Sharon
Chi
Don
Having a St. Patrick's day beer at the 340


Christian giggling at Daddy - the best feeling in the world! 
A packed fun, first St. Patrick's Day! Now - let's go home and go to sleep! 



Monday, March 18, 2013

Christian's Visit with Dr. M for his Forth Month Shots!



Dr. M fixed the mistake from last time. And this time our boy is 17.5 lbs and 2 feet! He is still in the normal, healthy range of growth on the chart. 
One oral vaccination and two more shots - check, check, check! 
You can hardly see it but there is a little band aid where he got one of his shots. He got one on each leg. 

Sunday, March 3, 2013

Exclusively Pumping

Here is my pumping routine:

FEED ME! 

For the first 9.5 weeks I pumped for 15 minutes every 3 hours. 

You had to pump often and on schedule to create a supply. You are supposed to pump every three hours for the first three months. I have read that you can lose your supply if you don't. I was planning on weaning at three months and I was extremely tired so I moved to every four hours at nine and a half weeks but didn't have any problems with supply. The extra rest must have helped! 


January 28 I started pumping every 4 hours - still 15 minutes each session.

I am starting to feel bad about weaning. Maybe I could pump a little longer. It isn't that bad. But, it would be nice to not be tethered to the machine every four hours and not to have these boobs! Am I just being selfish? No, I know I have given him a good start and formula isn't going to hurt him. 

I am also getting nervous about starting to wean. What if I get engorged again? You basically have to keep your boobs a little bit full and never fully empty them - supply and demand. I am also worried about getting a blockage from doing this. I just hope it all goes smoothly. It isn't going to be as easy as I have made it seem by filling in times in my calendar. 
My Medela pump and pumping hat

February 11 I continued to pump every 4 hours but I cut the time to 12 minutes each session.

Today is the third day into this routine. Twice I have pushed pumps 5 hours or longer because I just wasn't home to pump. My right breast is showing signs of engorgement. I am going to stick strict to the schedule from here on in. I might even have to wean a little more slowly. I wonder if my breasts will get used to the 12 minute sessions?I am still making the same amount of milk and freezing three extra bags a day. 

Thursday - after sticking exactly to the time schedule my breasts were feeling better. Then, I slept through a pump session and woke up super hard. After pumping I was ok. I better turn my alarm up. I guess I needed the sleep. 

Mom got me a bottle brush - my bottles and nipples are super shiny now. I wish I had it the whole time. 

I made a lot of milk! 

February 18 I started pumping every 4.5 hours and I cut the time to 9 minutes. 

Monday and Tuesday I felt very full and big but by Wednesday I had adjusted. I am still making between 6-10 ounces most sessions. There is always one session a day when I make only 4 ounces. 
Drying station - lots of dish washing going on! 

February 24 I started pumping every 5 hours and I cut the time to 6 minutes. 

The first day was a bit full and sore but by the second day I had adjusted fine. I am definitely not making much milk anymore. 
You need water when you are pumping - and for life in general! 

February 27 I started pumping every 6 hours for just 3 minutes. 

There is no full or sore feeling when I jumped down to this level. The amount of milk I get in three minutes makes me wonder if I even need to continue on. I am going to stick to the plan though.

Oh - I need to continue on. At my 7pm pumping session I felt really full and three minutes is hardly enough to relieve it. BUT, I am sticking to the plan.  
Rubber gloves for washing all the time - keeps the hands nice and soft. 

March 2 I stopped pumping on schedule 

I last pumped at 8pm. My plan was to skip the 2am pump session and pump at 8am. We all slept in till 9 and I wasn't sore or hard so now, it is almost noon and I still haven't pumped. Am I done? I don't know. But if I start to feel sore or hard I will let a little out. No more schedule just listening to my body. 

I ended up pumping once a day when I woke up for 2 minutes. 
Pump parts drying

March 6 I stopped pumping all together! 

I was worried I might have to pump again or that I would get mastitis or clogged ducts but today is Friday - and I have pumped since Tuesday morning. I am fine! I made it! I survived. I wonder how long it will take for my breasts to go back to normal? I guess I will just have to wait and see. The tough part is over and not pumping at night is awesome. Now we just have to get up to feed the boy.. about two times a night. That is nothing compared to how much I was up before. YAY! 

Random notes about pumping: 

  • I kept a pumping alarm on my phone and tried to stick to the time as good as I could. Sometimes I pumped early or late depending on what I had to do.
  • Christmas was the only time I didn't pump at home - I pumped at mom and dad's house in my old room. It is a hassle because you have to clean everything. It is much easier to just pump at home. 
  • I have a stock of milk frozen in the freezer. There should be enough for Christian to have mostly breast milk for another month making it a total of four and a half months. 
  • I started giving Christian one bottle of formula at night on February 4th. Supposedly it helps babies to sleep longer because it stays in the system longer than breast milk. I haven't noticed much difference. 
  • I used hot water and dish soap to wash the pump parts after every use. I found the spray hose really helpful to clean the filter parts and bottles. Then, mom got me the bottle brush with a nipple cleaner in the handle... wow!! I wish I had that the whole time. Get one of these - they are at the dollar store! 
  • I used rubber gloves after the first week when I realized my skin was peeling off from getting them wet eight times a day. (Thanks mom) 
  • There is no way you can stay sleepy pumping at night. However, I had no problem going back to sleep. 
  • Just because you pump every three hours doesn't mean you get to sleep for three hours in between pumps. Christian would be hungry and need a change somewhere during that time. During growth spurts he might eat twice. You are lucky to get two consecutive hours. Jonny is a big help. 
  • I used Medela freezer bags. 


He is lucky he is cute!! 

Wednesday, February 27, 2013

Grandma came Swimming!

Grandma met us at swimming today and then we got to go for a apres swim snack! 

Thursday, February 7, 2013

Sleepy Sleeps



I never wanted to be a co-sleeping family. I guess what we found out is you don't get to choose... Christian chose to sleep with us. I think fatigue also played a role. It is a lot easier to sooth a crying baby that is in the same bed as you. And a baby will not cry as much because you are right there. He can smell you, man he can taste you if he wanted to.

Today, Christian is eleven weeks old and he has been sleeping in his own cradle, still in our room, but in his own cradle for three nights. He has slept the whole night in the cradle before but that was at the expense of my whole night of sleep. That was me camping right beside the cradle and rocking it all night. I would feed him, change him, and put him back in and then lay there beside him holding his little hand through the bars. 


At the very beginning we tried swaddling him and putting him in his bassinet and jiggly chair. But soon our own sleep took need and he was in the bed with us. Don't get me wrong, I love cuddling with him and we got good at it - both Jonny and I taking turns cuddling the baby at night. We were lucky if he would sleep in the middle without cuddles. The boy was getting spoiled and Jonny was waking up with a sore back and I was getting sore sleeping in the same position trying not to move. That isn't a very restful sleep - albeit - it was some sleep. 

One day last week Christian had an eight hour sleep. I rolled him out of my pit spot, pumped, came back and rolled him back in, and again once more I rolled him out and when I went to pump he did wake up with Jonny then. But, I was pumping every four hours. When I went back into the bedroom, I looked at Jonny and said, "Do you realize what just happened? Our boy slept eight hours!" We were pretty excited. I went for a run that morning and smiled the whole way. Even though that length of sleep has not repeated itself, it gave me the idea that the boy just could be ready to try sleeping on his own again and mommy and daddy could have their own bed back and their original cuddle partners. 



So, Monday night project, Sleep in your own Cradle, began. The first night it took me two hours to get him to sleep in the cradle. I fed him till he was sleepy, laid him down, he would sleep a little bit and then wake up crying and I would repeat the process. We also used a bottle of formula because that keeps them full so they can sleep longer. Each night it got easier to get him to sleep in the cradle. But, tonight, I was sleepy and at 4am after being up with him at 12, pumping at 1, feeding again at 2:30, then him waking up again at 4 - I just brought him into bed with me and cuddled him. I was tired. Last night Jonny brought him into bed with us when he fed him once in the night because he didn't like the noise of him fussing in the cradle. So, we are not there completely - but the effort is being put in and in time the boy will be more comfortable sleeping in his own bed - and that will make us all more comfortable.